To commemorate Black History Month here is a playlist:

Intro
Max Richter – All Human Beings
David Lammy – When Will Black Lives Matter?
Nina Simone – Ain’t Got No – I Got Life
Kathleen Cleaver – Change It
Prince Riser – African Slaves Dub
Billie Holliday – Strange Fruit (Outsider Mix)
The Last Poets – Black Lives Matter
Dominique Fils-Aime – Strange Fruit
Huey Newton – The Black Panther Party Calls For
DJ Vadim – If Life Was A Thing
Stokely Carmichael – So Much Strength
Doctor T Meets The 18th Parallel – Fuel For Dub
Malcolm X – Standing & Fighting
Oku Onuora – If Not Now
Benjamin Zephaniah – Dis Policeman
Huey Newton – Power To The People
Ministry of Echology – Moving Forward (Kaseta Version)
Freddie McKay – I’m A Free Man
Bongo Isaac & Itekted Dread Benji – Perfect Love and Peace
David Lammy – Hang On A Minute

Times Gone By – LGBT History:

Jeanne Deckers aka The Singing Nun – 17 October 1933 – 29 March 1985

In 1963 Jeanne Deckers, a Dominican nun, recorded an LP. One song from the album, “Dominique”, sold over 1.5 million copies and was number 1 worldwide.  Under the name Soeur Sourire (Sister Smile) she appeared on the legendary “Ed Sullivan Show” – a performance that made her an international superstar.  

In 1964 she won a Grammy for Best Gospel Recording and in 1965 MGM produced a highly fictionalised movie of her life – “The Singing Nun” – starring Debbie Reynolds. 

Having grown increasingly critical of Catholic doctrines – particularly the Church’s stand on artificial contraception – Jeanne left the order in 1967, and along with her companion of ten years, Annie Pescher, she opened a school for autistic children. 

In the early 1980s the Belgian government claimed she owed $63,000 in back taxes for royalties from “Dominique”.  Deckers countered that as all proceeds from the record’s sales were donated to the Convent no taxes were due; but the government would not relent and threatened to shut down the school. Citing financial difficulties, Jeanne Deckers and Annie Pescher died by suicide together through an overdose of barbiturates and alcohol on 29 March 1985. The note they left said simply “We hope God will welcome us. He saw us suffer.”

Laura Nyro – 18 October 1947 – 8 April 1997

It would be difficult to overstate Laura Nyro’s influence on late 20th-century popular music.  A self-taught pianist, Nyro began composing songs as a child and sold her first song – “And When I Die” – at the age of 19.

Between 1968 and 1970 a number of her songs achieved significant success on the Billboard charts by The Fifth Dimension, Blood, Sweat, and Tears, Three Dog Night and Barbra Streisand.  

Nyro’s evocative style mixed jazz and rhythm-and-blues with street pop, gospel and Broadway.  A number of her songs – the antiwar “Save the Country”, the feminist “Women of the One World” and the environmentalist “Lite a Flame” – addressed social issues. Throughout her career Nyro maintained a very strong lesbian following.

She never publicly acknowledged her own sexuality, which included relationships with both men and women, privately referring to herself as “woman identified.” In 1977 Nyro met painter Maria Desiderio. The two women were together until Nyro’s death of ovarian cancer in 1997 at age 49.

Frances Kellor – 20 October 1873 – 4 January 1952

Frances Alice Kellor received her law degree from Cornell in 1897 and soon after entered the University Of Chicago to study criminal sociology. She eventually spent nearly two years in southern penitentiaries for African Americans. Her resultant book,  “Experimental Sociology” (1901), helped launch the modern concept that environmental factors — such as disadvantaged childhoods and poor education – play a determining role in criminal behaviour.

After moving to New York City in 1903, Kellor undertook a subsequent study of the exploitation of domestic workers by employment agencies. The resulting book, “Out of Work” (1904), was among the first books to present unemployment as a government problem rather than simply a personal misfortune.

It was around this time that she fell in love with activist Mary Dreier. In 1906, Kellor was instrumental in organising the National League for the Protection Of Colored Women, which worked to find jobs and housing for African American women migrating north.

In 1908 Kellor was appointed to New York State Immigration Commission. Her research led to the creation of the Bureau of Industries and Immigration, which provided arbitration between workers and employers and produced leaflets in various languages warning immigrants to beware of exploitative practices. In 1912 Kellor began work with the Progressive Party, which believed in using the state for social reform. She headed the party’s National Service Committee, preparing official statements and research, making her instrumental in shaping Theodore Roosevelt’s campaign agenda. In this way Kellor became a key player in presidential politics before women even had the right to vote.

Continuing her work for the compassionate assimilation of immigrants, Kellor devised programmes that provided language and citizenship classes as well as vocational training. In 1926 she launched the American Arbitration Association and wrote “Arbitration in the New Industrial Society” (1934). Frances Kellor was still vice-president of the American Arbitration Association when she died in 1952 in the home she had shared with Drier since 1905. She was 78.

Rainbow Lottery

Out In The City signed up to the Rainbow Lottery 16 months ago. In that time:

• Supporters have bought 2,333 tickets in total;
• Rainbow Lottery have paid Out In The City £1166.50;
• We currently have 20 supporters buying tickets each week;
• 17 of those 20 have won prizes (38 x 3 extra tickets the following week or cash prizes 7 x £25 and 2 x £250).

In the national draw on 29 October you will have the chance to win an extra special prize – a £1,000 Bicycle Voucher. That’s on top of the weekly cash prizes of up to £25,000.

There’s no need for existing supporters to buy a separate ticket – you will automatically be entered into the special draw, but of course you could buy extra tickets: the more tickets you have, the more chances to WIN!

Please support us.

Chill Factor

The Chill Factor is the home of the UK’s longest indoor real snow ski slope. It is near the Trafford Centre, about seven miles from Manchester city centre and is easily located (if travelling by car). However, on public transport it is about a twenty minute walk once you have reached the Trafford Centre tram terminus.

Once we arrived at the venue we made our way to The Lodge Bar and Kitchen where we met Steve (and his friend Alan), who is not only a member of Out In The City but a qualified ski instructor. He was booted up ready for going on the slope.

The Lodge Bar and Kitchen is a relaxing Alpine lodge located on the first floor. It offers panoramic views over the slope. The food and drink were reasonably priced, and we enjoyed Alpine Schnitzel, Beef Goulash and Pizzas.

We only spent a couple of minutes on the outside viewing platform as it was minus six degrees. Besides The Lodge Bar was spacious and warm and gave a birds eye view of the slope.

It was a great place to sit back and relax whiling away the time watching some freestyle skills in action.

More photos can be seen here.

SEASONED: Connections Project

SEASONED: Connections Project meets every Tuesday (beginning 11 October) at LGBT Foundation, Fairbairn House, 72 Sackville Street, Manchester M1 3NJ from 6.00pm – 8.00pm, .

The project is a weekly space for LGBTQI people of colour aged late 40s and up to learn new digital skills and improve current connectivity, stay connected with loved ones throughout winter and share stories with each other. The project includes device giveaways and loans for tech-limited friends and family.

The first meeting on Tuesday 11 October is a ‘get to know you’ and intro to subsequent sessions, all completely free, with refreshments included. Want to know more? Email: qtipoc@lgbt.foundation

Times Gone By – LGBT History:

Oscar Wilde – 16 October 1854 – 30 November 1900

Oscar Wilde – whose full name was Oscar Fingal O’Flahertie Willis Wilde – became one of the most popular and fashionable playwrights of the early 1890’s in Victorian London. He is also one of the most celebrated and iconic gay men of British history. Mr Wilde was originally from Dublin, born on 16 October 1854 at Westland Row, and as such he was an Irish born poet and dramatist. However, Wilde was also ultimately a tragic figure as he went from being an artistic playwright and flamboyant wit, to being a man struck down by tragedy who was imprisoned for two years and ultimately dying penniless in a cheap hotel in Paris.

Both of Wilde’s parents were professional, intelligent and highly accomplished individuals. Wilde’s mother (Lady Jane Wilde, 1820-1869) wrote patriotic Irish verse. She was a successful poet and journalist, and also wrote revolutionary poetry under the pseudonym Speranza. She was also considered an authority on Celtic Myth and Folklore. Wilde’s mother is credited with having inspired her son’s love of poetry and neo-classical art. Wilde’s father (Sir William Wilde, 1815-1876) was also a gifted literary figure, and produced books on ‘Archaeology and Folklore’. He was also a medical professional, in fact described as ‘Ireland’s leading ear and eye surgeon’.

Oscar Wilde can be more accurately described as Anglo-Irish who was a playwright, a novelist, poet, lecturer, journalist and critic. However, he only wrote one novel in his career, which was ‘The Picture of Dorian Grey’. Wilde was also part of what could be described as an ideology or a philosophy known as the Aesthetic movement that was popular in England during the Victorian era. Its ‘creed’ has been summarised as ‘Art for Art’s sake’

Having come from such an accomplished cultural family, it would seem inevitable that Wilde would receive a good education. He first went to Portora Royal School (between 1864-71) then attended Trinity College Dublin (1871-74) and finally Magdalen College Oxford (1874-78). It was during his time at Magdalen College that Wilde became a strong admirer of the teachings and philosophy of the English writers John Ruskin and Walter Pater, who taught about the ‘central importance of art in life’. Pater stressed that life should be lived with aesthetic intensity. Wilde thus became known during his Oxford days for his involvement with the Aesthetic and decadent movements. Wilde began to wear his hair long and decorated his rooms with ‘peacock feathers, lilies, sunflowers, blue china and other objets d’art’. The ‘aesthetics’ had ‘languishing attitudes’ and a showy flamboyant dress sense.

Wilde’s intellectual talents also included being an exceptional linguist. He studied Greek for nearly nine years and became fluent in English, German, French and he had a working knowledge of Italian and Greek. Unfortunately he apparently was unable to speak a single word of Irish.

When his studies at Oxford came to completion, Wilde returned to Ireland for romantic purposes as he wanted to meet a potential love interest, the renowned beauty Florence Balcombe. Unfortunately for Wilde, this potential romance was never to be as Miss Balcombe had become engaged to Bram Stoker, the famous author of ‘Dracula’. Heartbroken, Wilde moved to London and boarded with portrait artist Frank Miles who was highly successful. Wilde lived on the highly fashionable Tite Street in Chelsea, a residence that also boasted none other than the painter James Whistler and illustrator Charles Rickets with his partner Charles Shannon.

Apart from his literary accomplishments, Wilde was also renowned for his ‘dazzling’ wit and has also often been described as ‘flamboyant’ – a description that can also be extended to his affairs with men. After moving back to England, Wilde soon became a name in Victorian London’s ‘society circles’, He drew into his orbit a number of admirers ‘flocking’ to Chelsea to spend time with him and Miles. This was partly in response to the fact that Wilde had published, at his own expense, a poetry collection (his first in 1881) despite the fact that he had been lampooned by Punch magazine.

The followers that Wilde attracted into his orbit have been described as having ‘initiated a personal cult, self-consciously effete and artificial’. In fact, Wilde wrote in 1894 ‘the first duty in life is to be as artificial as possible’. It would seem that with his decadence, he was deliberately setting out to contradict Victorian piety.

In 1882 when he travelled to the United States, having arrived at customs in New York City, he made perhaps his most famous quip that he had ‘nothing to declare but his genius’. Wilde spent an entire year lecturing in America. He then returned to England where he also lectured. Wilde also tried his hand at editing and from the years 1887 to 1889, he edited the magazine ‘Woman’s World’. In 1888, Wilde wrote ‘The Happy Prince and Other Tales’, this being his first success as a prose writer. In 1892, he brought out another collection of fairy tales entitled ‘The House of Pomegranates’.

Oscar Wilde is also famous as being an iconic gay man. Homosexuality was considered a crime during the Victorian era. As he famously had a homosexual relationship or ‘affair’ with the son of an aristocrat, his personal life became public knowledge, and he was ultimately tried, sentenced and imprisoned.

Wilde apparently became active as a gay man in 1886. He believed he was deliberately subverting the Victorian moral code and challenging society by creating scandal, albeit a personal private scandal. Furthermore, he believed that his subversion of the Victorian moral code was the inspirational ‘impulse’ to his literary career. Ultimately a rebel, Wilde ‘believed in the criminal mentality’ and perceived himself as a criminal. It is interesting to note here that the subject of criminality was woven into his only novel published in 1891 ‘The Picture of Dorian Gray’. In this story, the painter Basil Hallward is murdered, initiating Dorian’s disintegration as a pivotal moment. Initially the character Dorian did not age which is considered to be a metaphorical celebration of youth.

Wilde, who famously had a gay relationship with Lord Alfred Douglas, (otherwise known as ‘Bosie’) was accused of homosexuality by Bosie’s father, who happened to be the Marquis of Queensberry. This resulted in Wilde suing Bosie’s father for libel. Tragically Wilde’s case went against him and he was ultimately arrested and tried for ‘gross indecency’. He was sentenced for two years hard labour – for the  crime of ‘sodomy’.

It was between the years 1892-1895 that Wilde produced a number of Plays. These works proved to be popular with audiences as they relied on puns and elaborate word games. In 1892, Wilde produced ‘Lady Windemere’s Fan’, in 1893 ‘A Woman of No Importance’, and in 1895 there was ‘An ideal Husband’ and ‘The Importance of Being Earnest’.

National Coming Out Day

National Coming Out Day is an annual LGBT+ awareness day observed on 11 October to support lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in “coming out of the closet”.

First celebrated in the United States in 1988, the initial idea was grounded in the feminist and gay liberation spirit of the personal being political, and the emphasis on the most basic form of activism being coming out to family, friends and colleagues, and living life as an openly LGBT+ person.

The foundational belief is that homophobia thrives in an atmosphere of silence and ignorance, and that once people know that they have loved ones who are LGBT+, they are far less likely to maintain homophobic or oppressive views. 

In the US Come Out! was the first periodical published by the Gay Liberation Front in November 1969.

The UK Gay Liberation Front existed between 1970 to 1973.

Its first meeting was held in the basement of the London School of Economics on 13 October 1970. Bob Mellors and Aubrey Walter had seen the effect of the GLF in the United States and created a parallel movement based on revolutionary politics. Come Together, the organisation’s newspaper, came out of its Media Workshop the same year. The GLF challenged gay people to come out and be visible, while also exploring the means by which they were oppressed by society. For the GLF, gay liberation was not about law reform, it was about a revolutionary change in society.

National Football Museum

Last Thursday Out in the City visited the National Football Museum. It is based in the Urbis building in Manchester city centre, and preserves, conserves and displays important collections of football memorabilia. The museum was originally based in Deepdale, Preston in Lancashire, but moved to Manchester in 2012.

The first item we saw on display was the mini donated by George Best, but we soon discovered that there was a guided tour. Our fantastic guide, Veronica, was so knowledgeable and enthusiastic that she brought the displays of trophies and t-shirts to life even to those with little or no interest in the “glorious game”.

The Football Association Minute Book, 1863

In 1863, Ebenezer Cobb Morley, the visionary first secretary of The Football Association, helped devise the original thirteen laws of association football. While these laws have been revised many times, they helped to define the game, as we know it today.

The book also records the birth of the FA Cup and the planning of the first ever international match. It is the most significant document in football history, without which the world would never had played its most popular sport.

The laws were drafted in a London pub, and the wobbly writing shows the obvious effects of the beer drunk when drafting the rules.

Also on display is the England shirt worn by Arnold Kirke Smith in the world’s first international match versus Scotland in 1872.

On 20 March 1966, the Jules Rimet trophy was stolen from a stamp exhibition in London. A ransom note was sent to the FA, along with a part of the trophy: “ Pay me £15,000 in £5 and £1 notes and you shall have your cup back … you will be satisfied and so will the rest of the world  … Do not inform press or police.”

On 27 March, Pickles the dog found the trophy in a garden near the home of his owner, David Corbett. The thief has never been caught, but Pickles became a national celebrity.

The museum also shows the “dark side” of football with racism and discrimination based on gender, religion and sexual orientation, as well as highlighting the positive roles of black people and women.

The Prince of Goalkeepers

Arthur Wharton was the first black professional player in English football. He was born in Ghana, the son of a missionary and an African princess.

Wharton broke records for sprinting and cycling but chose a career in football. He was a crowd pleaser and once pulled down the crossbar to stop a goal. He played for eight clubs in seventeen years.

Lily Parr

Lily Parr was one of English football’s greatest ever players and its first female superstar. She played for the most successful women’s team of her time: Dick, Kerr’s Ladies.

As men fought during the First World War, Lily and other women worked in munitions factories where they seized the chance to play football. Between 1917 and 1921, the team played over 100 games and attracted huge crowds at major stadiums. In 1920, over 53,000 watched them play St Helens Ladies at Everton’s Goodison Park.

Lily lodged in Preston with one of her teammates, Alice Norris. She also had a romantic relationship with her teammate Alice Woods. While playing for the Dick, Kerr’s Ladies she was noted for her large appetite and almost constant smoking of Woodbine cigarettes.

The success of Lily and her teammates was not welcomed by everyone. In 1921, the FA banned its clubs from hosting women’s games. Despite this opposition, Lily and her teammates defiantly played on and encouraged others to do so. During her impressive 30-year career she played across the world, and scored around 1,000 goals.

It was an interesting experience, which I recommend to everyone visiting Manchester.

More photos can be seen here.

“Groove” at The Contact Theatre

“Groove” is a lively theatrical performance about the dance floor – a place where LGBT+ people can feel liberatory potential. For us, it can be our community centre, our church, our school and our family.

The theatre company Outbox brought the democracy of the dance floor to Studio One at the Contact. We felt the groove as the night

club atmosphere encouraged audience members to get up and dance and the performers moved into the audience on a number of occasions.

The pulse of the music brought back memories of stepping through those doors where magic happens. There were memories of everyone sweating from the music, communally recognising the songs, which inspired us and made us move our bodies and our minds. The dance floor was our safe haven from the outside world, where we could be ourselves at least for a few hours.

It was an enjoyable and emotional piece of theatre. We also enjoyed the after-party. Thanks to Lawrie from Pride-in-Ageing who organised our attendance at the event.

Mid-day concert at The Bridgewater Hall

Twelve of us met at The Bridgewater Hall for a lunch time concert featuring Domonkos Csabay. He is a UK-based Hungarian concert pianist, chamber musician and accompanist.

The programme demonstrated his versatility with a vibrant selection of pieces from Haydn, Beethoven and Liszt. We enjoyed the concert and short encore before having light refreshments at Black Sheep Coffee.

International Lesbian Day

International Lesbian Day is an annual awareness day that celebrates the L in LGBTQ+. It is relatively unknown outside Australia and New Zealand.

International Lesbian Day is celebrated on 8 October and is a celebration of lesbian culture and identity. The origins of the day are unclear. According to some sources, it was first observed in New Zealand in 1980 with a Lesbian Day March on International Women’s Day (8 March). Other accounts claim that the day started about a decade later. Be that as it may, the observance has been around since at least the early 1990s.

International Lesbian Day is mostly marked with various community events, such as celebration dances and conferences. Brisbane, for example, hosts the annual International Lesbian Day conference that aims to celebrate and promote lesbian rights, as well as to highlight key well-being and health issues affecting same-sex attracted women (alongside lesbians, this includes women who identify as bisexual, pansexual and queer). In addition to International Lesbian Day there’s Lesbian Visibility Day observed on 26 April – another awareness day with an inconclusive origin. Lesbian Visibility Day celebrates lesbian culture, diversity and role models.

Please complete survey

We Are Explorers is a youth group for LGBTQ+ 13-19 year olds based in Leigh.

The young people are writing an LGBTQ+ play which includes two characters aged over 50. They have written a survey to help them write the play because they want this to be a story based on real LGBTQ issues and people. It is anonymous and data is password protected and will be destroyed before December 2023.

Please go to survey here.

International Day of Older People

To celebrate International Day of Older People 2022, please see the video featuring the lives of the incredible older LGBTQ+ people  that the LGBT Foundation serves through the Pride in Ageing project.

Watch the full video here:

Times Gone By – LGBT History:

Gore Vidal – 3 October 1925 – 31 July 2012

Eugene Louis Vidal was born on 3 October 1925 in West Point, New York. He inherited his mother’s maiden name of “Gore” when he was baptised into the Episcopal faith at age 13. By age 14 he dropped his first two names because he “wanted a sharp, distinctive name, appropriate for an aspiring author, or a national political leader.”

After graduating in 1943, Vidal joined the US Army which influenced his first novel, Williwaw, published at age 19. His third novel, The City and the Pillar (1948), is the story of professional tennis player who never outgrows a boyhood crush on his best friend. The idea that gay men circulate in society largely undetected was an outrage to many readers. At the publisher’s insistence, the original book ended with a violent death. In 1968, with the change in social values, Vidal published a revised version. That book is often cited as the first mainstream coming-out novel.

Though he rejected being thought of as a ‘gay author’ and did not much embrace the gay community, most of his work featured more or less prominent gay characters, making him a huge influence in expanding gay visibility in mainstream fiction – even though, ironically, he believed public knowledge of his sexuality denied him full recognition from the literary community in the United States. Among his 22 novels were the fictional transgender opus Myra Breckinridge, and the plot-oriented historical fiction novels Burr, Julian, and Lincoln.

Vidal also wrote over 200 essays focusing mainly on sex, politics, and religion and the American character. Known for his sharp wit and biting commentary as well as his ‘quotability’ and insight, in 1993 he won a National Book Award for his collection United States: Essays, 1952-1992 and two years later his memoir, Palimpsest was met with great praise. Believing men and women were all potentially bisexual, Vidal rejected “homosexual” and “heterosexual” as identities. Nonetheless, he lived in Italy with his partner of fifty-three years, Howard Austen, until Austen’s death in 2003. Afterwards, Vidal sold their villa and moved to Los Angeles, where he died of complications from pneumonia on 31 July 2012.

Dr Alan L Hart – 4 October 1890 – 1 July 1962

As a child Alan L Hart, who was assigned female at birth, was allowed to dress and live as a boy with both parents freely supporting his gender expression. Attending Albany College and then Stanford, he received his PhD from The University of Oregon.

In 1918 he married Inez Stark, using the name Robert Bamford. Later that year he had a hysterectomy, changed his name to Alan L Hart, and started a medical practice. Eventually recognised by a classmate from medical school, the couple began a recurring pattern of relocation and job changes. The stress of the continual secrecy led to their divorce.

In 1925 Alan remarried and from 1935-1942 wrote four novels (including Doctor Mallory and In the Lives of Men) set in the Pacific Northwest dealing with social issues within the medical field. Professionally Hart began to focus more on research – receiving his Masters Degree in Radiology in 1930 and another in Public Health in 1948.

After years of trying to keep a low profile, in the late 1940s Hart began taking newly available synthetic male hormones, which enabled him to grow a beard and lowered his voice sufficiently to give him the confidence to begin lecturing.

He became a prominent figure in the study of Tuberculosis. Highly contagious, especially among close-quartered urban dwellers, with no available tests and no known treatment, Tuberculosis became one of the most virulent killers in US History. Hart was one of the first to document how the disease was spread and how the isolation of carriers from the general public was key to slowing it – if it could be detected in its earliest stages. Speaking nationwide on Tuberculosis care, Hart dedicated all his time to fundraising for medical research and to help support economically challenged TB patients. In a move to end the stigma of the disease, Hart spearheaded a massive, nationwide campaign to use X-Ray Technology to screen people. This extremely successful detection effort led to earlier diagnoses to isolate carriers in publicly supported sanatoriums so they could recover before infecting others. All of the groundbreaking, visionary work Hart championed took place 20 years before the epidemiological test for tuberculosis was developed. As a result, it is thought that millions of lives were saved because of this one man’s commitment.

Dr Hart lived his entire life with most people completely unaware he was transgender. Even those who have studied his research are still mostly unaware of it. In spite of his unparalleled impact on history, he passed away in obscurity from complications due to heart disease in 1962.