Martha Shelley … Quentin Crisp: Naked Hope … The Forgotten Gender Non-Conformists

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Martha Shelley

Martha Altman was born on 27 December 1943, in Brooklyn, New York, to parents of Russian-Polish Jewish descent. In 1960, she attended her first women’s judo classes in New York City, trying to meet lesbian women. Two years later, at age 19, she moved out of her parents’ home to a hotel and went to lesbian bars, where she “was miserable”. She did not find herself fitting in to the roles of “butch” or “femme”, common lesbian gender roles during this period.

In November 1967 she went to her first meeting of the New York City chapter of the Daughters of Bilitis (DOB), of which she later became president.

Due to FBI surveillance, members of the DOB were encouraged to take aliases, and Altman took Shelley as a surname.

While in a leadership role with the DOB, Shelley sometimes provided tours to women who were in New York City to learn about how to make their own chapter of the organisation. While giving one of these tours to women from Boston the night of the Stonewall riots, Shelley and her visitors walked past the beginnings of the riots outside of the Stonewall Inn. Shelley dismissed them as anti-war protests initially but was later informed about the actual cause.

Activist Mark Segal recounts that Shelley and Marty Robinson stood and made speeches from the front door of the Stonewall on 29 June 1969, the second night of the riot. Recognizing the significance of the event and being politically aware, Shelley proposed a protest march and, as a result, DOB and Mattachine sponsored a demonstration.

With time, it became clear to those involved that Shelley and others desired a new organisation to better serve their political goals; she was one of the twenty or so women and men who formed the Gay Liberation Front after Stonewall and was outspoken in many of their confrontations.

In 2023, she published a memoir, We Set the Night on Fire: Igniting the Gay Revolution.

She also wrote the following: “Lies, Myths, and Stonewall”

“Eyewitnesses often can’t agree on events that happened yesterday, let alone 50 years ago – like the Stonewall Riots. Inevitably, some nations, interest groups, and individuals attempt to shape the narrative to promote their own agendas. They glorify their achievements, gloss over their misdeeds, and disparage or even omit the real achievements of others. When I attended public school in New York, I was fed a history that exalted the Founders, various US presidents, and a handful of other white men, as though they had done everything worthwhile that ever happened here. I was taught that all progress had been a gift from those leaders, and we were told next to nothing about Black people, Hispanics, Native Americans, the women’s movement and the labour movement.

A similar process has been happening with regard to the gay movement during and after Stonewall. (I say “gay movement” rather than LGBT because that’s what we called ourselves in those years.) Here is what I know and remember about Stonewall:

The riots started on Saturday night, June 28, 1969. I was passing by at the time, saw a young white man throwing something at the cops, and assumed it was an anti-war demonstration. I had been in other anti-war demos, but that night I had out-of-town guests with me and was taking them home, so didn’t join in. However, I recently spoke to Mark Segal, one of my comrades from the Gay Liberation Front (GLF), who had participated in the riots himself. He said there were no leaders, just people rebelling in individual ways – throwing things, breaking windows, setting fires to trash cans, whatever. No one was taking more of a leader role than anyone else. Newspaper accounts at the time, and historians who interviewed hundreds of people, report that the rioters were mostly young white gay men. One of the bar owners stated that the bar patrons were “98% male.” The bar was not welcoming to drag queens, lesbians, or non-whites, so they rarely patronised it.

Within one week after the Stonewall riot, a few of us – gay men and lesbians – formed GLF. Exactly one month afterward, we held a protest march in Greenwich Village. According to undercover police, around 400 people attended. The enormous progress in LGBT rights since those days, including same sex marriage, came about as a result of actions by GLF and many successive organisations.

Now let’s look at the mythology:

It started almost immediately. A mocking article in the Village Voice suggested that riots could be attributed to gays mourning Judy Garland’s death. As though we had no other reason to be angry – not police cruelty, not harassment, not shaming or violence or the threat of violence, not the constant public abuse heaped on us by articles like that one. Yet that lie has persisted for years.

After the gay movement began to make progress, to even become fashionable, hundreds or even thousands of people stepped up to claim that they had been at Stonewall, had even thrown the first brick. (There were no loose bricks in the neighbourhood at the time.) As has been said, if all those claimants had been present, they would’ve filled Yankee Stadium. One lesbian feminist wrote in her published memoir that she and I were having a drink in the bar that night when the riot broke out. I can only think that her memory is playing tricks on her. The first time I set foot in the Stonewall was in 2015, during the push to declare it a national monument. I was surprised at how small the place was.

Eventually the gay movement became LGBT, and then LGBTQ+. Now it seems, however, that a subset of the trans movement has appropriated the history, along with various leftists who want to be seen as allies. About a year ago, Democracy Now! reported that the riots were led by “transwomen of colour.” This is so far from actual events that I wrote to them trying to correct the misinformation but never heard back.

The way the legend goes these days is that two transwomen, Sylvia Rivera and Marsha P Johnson, led the Stonewall rebellion. More than that, they organised the gay movement after the riots. New York City is now erecting a statue in their honour. This year I was asked to speak for GLF at the rally prior to the big Pride parade in New York this year. While waiting my turn, I heard a speaker intone Sylvia and Marsha’s names as though invoking deities. Each time the crowd roared.

Here’s what I know and remember about Rivera and Johnson: First, they called themselves transvestites, not transgender. Few people, if any, identified as transgender in those days. They identified themselves as male or female at different times. Then, as Johnson herself said afterwards, she didn’t arrive at the Stonewall that evening until 2.00 am, long after the rebellion had started. Rivera was uptown all evening and never participated in the riots. I remember, myself, that immediately afterward they were not leaders of or even participants in the movement for gay rights. Neither of them became involved in GLF until September 1970, when they took part in an action by our organisation and the Student Homophile League at New York University.

Once in GLF, Rivera and Johnson formed Street Transvestites Action Revolutionaries (STAR). Rivera kicked her heroin habit. They opened the STAR House for homeless street transvestites, people whom no one would hire and who had no way to make a living except as prostitutes. STAR helped the street transvestites work toward getting off drugs. If they were arrested, Rivera or Johnson would go to Riker’s Island to help bail them out and make sure they were safe. Later, during the last 10 years of her life, Rivera went to work at the Metropolitan Community Church and ran a homeless shelter and soup kitchen.

Sylvia Rivera and Marsha P Johnson deserve to be remembered for the years of courageous and compassionate work that they actually did. Elevating them to sainthood erases their humanity, and pretending that they were the leaders of the Stonewall rebellion and the gay liberation movement erases their real history and everyone else’s actions as well.

More importantly, elevating any activist to sainthood encourages people to worship a hero, to passively wait for someone larger than life to swoop down from the skies and rescue them. The work of the LGBT movement was done by thousands of people, before and after Stonewall. And each one of you, readers, has a gift to share, a contribution to make toward a better future for us all. Don’t sit home lighting candles to imaginary saints. Go out and do what needs to be done.”

Quentin Crisp: Naked Hope

Written and performed by Mark Farrelly and directed by Linda Marlowe

Mark Farrelly brings his hugely-acclaimed solo play to Hope Mill for an up-close encounter with the original Englishman in New York.

From a conventional upbringing to global notoriety via The Naked Civil Servant, Quentin Crisp was one of the most memorable figures of the twentieth century. Openly gay as early as the 1930s, Quentin spent decades being beaten up on London’s streets for refusing to be anything less than himself. His courage, and the philosophy that evolved from those experiences, inspire to the present day.

Naked Hope depicts Quentin at two phases of his extraordinary life: alone in his Chelsea flat in the 1960s, certain that life has passed him by, and thirty years later, performing An Evening with Quentin Crisp in New York. Packed with witty gems on everything from cleaning (“Don’t bother – after the first four years the dust won’t get any worse”) to marriage (“Is there life after marriage? The answer is no”), Naked Hope is a glorious, uplifting celebration of the urgent necessity to be your true self.

Mark’s Triple Bill

For three night’s only, Mark Farrelly is bringing three different shows!

Where: Hope Mill Theatre, 113 Pollard Street, Ancoats, Manchester M4 7JA

Dates & Times:

Quentin: Monday 14 September – 7.30pm

Silence of Snow: Tuesday 15 September – 7.30pm

Jarman: Wednesday 16 September – 7.30pm

Prices:

Ticket to one show: £14.50 + £1.50 Fee

Tickets to two shows: £24 + £1.50 Fee

Tickets to three shows: £30 + £1.50 Fee

Book here.

From the cover of Peter Boag’s book Re-Dressing America’s Frontier Past via University of California Press

The Forgotten Gender Nonconformists of the Old West

It’s difficult to think of a world with clearer gender roles than the Old West, or at least the Old West as we know it from movies, television shows and genre novels. But when historian Peter Boag studied the real nineteenth-century American West, a different narrative emerged. For one thing, hundreds of people lived as the opposite gender from the one they were assigned at birth – and that’s just counting the people whose stories were reported in newspapers.

In many cases, Boag writes, cross-dressing served practical purposes. It was a disguise for criminals on the run, a safety device for travelling women and a necessity for taking jobs reserved for the other gender. But, he argues, in many cases Old West “cross-dressers” were probably people who we would identify as transgender today.

Boag describes a Mrs Nash, who was born in Mexico and worked as a laundress in the Seventh Cavalry in 1868. Nash was married three times to enlisted men over the next decade and was highly respected for her cooking and her skills with delicate laundry. The rest of the post only learned of her “male” anatomy after she died of appendicitis and her body was prepared for burial.

Another of Boag’s subjects was Bert Martin, who was convicted of horse theft and spent months in prison before officials forced him into women’s clothing and moved him to the female side of the prison. Boag’s research revealed that Martin was most likely born with ambiguous genitalia.

Boag, who studied these stories for his book Re-dressing America’s Frontier Past, was interested not just in how these people lived, but in how the public understood them at the time, and why they were later forgotten.

In the late nineteenth century, American sexologists used the word “inversion” for all sorts of gender non-conformity, including same-sex desire and cross-gender dressing. The academic term spread to the broader public. Other popular terms like “queer” also denoted what we would see today as a range of sexual and gender identities. Newspaper accounts described one person we might now identify as a heterosexual trans man as a “man-woman” or a “what-is-it.” In another case, a paper asked whether the subject of a story might be “a woman with the soul of a man.”

While contemporary newspapers often sensationalised these cases, Boag writes, later writers simply ignored them, or downplayed aspects that had come to seem particularly deviant. Female-to-male cross-dressing became identified with spunky, heterosexual heroines like Calamity Jane. Male-to-female figures were simply dropped from the narrative. 

The now-closed Western frontier became a mythical place of physically active, white, manly men. By the end of the nineteenth century, sexologists specifically identified inversion as a disorder of urban, industrialised society.

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Through a Queer Lens … Who’s The Real Dad? … Upcoming Pride Events

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Through A Queer Lens

On an extremely hot day, we made our way to the Manchester Jewish Museum on Cheetham Hill Road and enjoyed Shorbat Adas (Lentil Soup), bagels from the Bagel Bar and plenty of juices and cordials.

Sue, the Chief Executive Officer, gave an introductory talk about the temporary exhibition Through A Queer Lens – Stories of LGBTQ+ Jews.

The exhibition is a series of powerful photographic portraits and personal stories originally developed by Jewish Museum London.

First exhibited in 2016, the project was created through a unique collaboration between Black queer photographer Ajamu and trans activist and heritage manager Surat-Shaan Knan. Building on the landmark Rainbow Jews project, which documented LGBTQ+ Jewish history across the UK, the exhibition celebrates the richness, diversity and resilience of queer Jewish life.

Bringing these national stories to Manchester, the museum has expanded the exhibition through a local lens, sharing new stories from LGBTQ+ Jewish people with connections to the city – Clem Herman, Simon Asher, Stacie Cohen, Norman Goodman, Jo Lewis and Stephen Miller.

Further contributions are invited throughout the exhibition period, as part of the gallery offers visitors the opportunity to share their own stories, experiences and perspectives, helping to reflect on gaps in LGBTQ+ representation within the museum’s collection and to expand and enrich it for the future.

More photos can be seen here.

Thursday, 2 July – 6.00pm – 7.00pm – Author Event: Who’s The Real Dad?

House of Books & Friends, 81 King Street, Manchester M2 4AH

A candid, humorous and moving account of how two men and their surrogate came together to make a family.

Exploring the long-term impact of growing up under Section 28, changing social attitudes, and the expanding possibilities for LGBTQ+ parents, Who’s the Real Dad? demystifies the surrogacy process and offers a fresh perspective on what family really means in the twenty-first century.

Tickets (£5 ticket only / £20 ticket and book / limited amount of complimentary tickets for this event for anyone who needs it. Please contact bookworms@houseofbooksandfriends.com or call 07597 365 380).

Book here.

Upcoming Pride Events

Friday, 26 June – Sunday, 28 June – Sparkle Weekend

From Friday 26 – Sunday 28 June 2026, Sparkle Weekend returns to Manchester’s Gay Village, where it celebrates its 21st year as the UK’s longest running celebration of trans and gender diverse life, welcoming thousands of visitors for a weekend of community, culture, and visibility.

Introduction of Paid Ticketing

Sparkle Charity has made the decision to introduce paid tickets for 2026. Ticket purchase link: spkl.uk/tickets

Upcoming Prides:

Macclesfield Pride (4 July)

Oldham Pride (11 July)

Weaste Pride (11 July)

Veteran’s Pride (24 July)

Liverpool Pride (25 July)

Stockport Pride (26 July)

Trans Pride Manchester (1 August)

True Pride (1 August)

Prestwich Pride (6-9 August)

Wigan Pride (8 August)

Levenshulme Pride (14-16 August)

Manchester Village Pride (28-31 August)

Didsbury Pride (30 August)

Chorlton Pride (12 September)

Withington Pride (19 September)

TRUE PRIDE launches in Manchester with Planningtorock, jasmine.4.t, The Irrepressibles and Hidden Cameras

True Pride

This summer, TRUE PRIDE arrives in Manchester as an exciting new festival experience unlike any other, taking over Hidden on Saturday 1 August 2026. 

Exclusively queer-curated, the inaugural event has been created to place queer artists, voices and audiences firmly at its heart, offering a bold, authentic and fully representative celebration of LGBTQI+ creativity, culture and community.

The headliners deliver three powerhouse queer voices: Planningtorock‘s visionary trans electronic experimentation, jasmine.4.t‘s emotionally charged transfemme songwriting, viral homo cult band The Irrepressibles, with their symphonic, indie-punk-rock, plus Canada’s Joel Gibb (The Hidden Cameras), with intimate, guitar-driven queer anthems alongside the festival’s in-house string quartet.

Spanning day into night, TRUE PRIDE will bring together live music, DJs, comedy, talks, film, wellness, and performance across multiple spaces, from daytime arts and film programming to late-night club culture across rooms and floors.The Acoustic Stage will feature performers from Queer as F*ck, Manchester’s celebrated grassroots open mic platform dedicated exclusively to LGBTQ+ artists, plus a host of other performers. From midnight to 2.00am, the middle floor will host a DILF takeover, with DILF DJs Dan Louder and Nick Charles playing exclusively queer artists and tracks featuring queer vocalists.

Founded and curated by a team of LGBTQ+ curators, including Jamie Irrepressible, with Manchester-based creatives DJ Bollibubbles, DJ Sandra D, Liam Walsh and Sally McFerran, TRUE PRIDE responds to the ongoing underrepresentation of queer artists in mainstream Pride programming.

Born from frustration, anger and love, TRUE PRIDE is a call to reclaim Pride as a space where LGBTQI+ people are centred, visible and represented through music, art, performance and culture.

Artists confirmed for this announcement include Planningtorock, jasmine.4.t, The Irrepressibles, Joel Gibb (The Hidden Cameras), DJ Bollibubbles, Leo Chadburn, DJ Sandra D, Kerry LeighOllie BeckerRun RemedyAlabaster Queen, Queer as F**k, DILF DJs Dan Louder and Nick Charles, and Jamie Irrepressible (PA/DJ set), with further artists to be announced.

TRUE PRIDE takes place at Hidden, 16–18 Mary Street, Cheetham Hill, Manchester M3 1NH. The festival is presented by Of Naked Design and is strictly for ages 18 and over.

Tickets are on sale now via DICE. Early Bird tickets are priced at £22.71 for students, disabled people and unemployed attendees, and £28.38 for General Admission.

Media enquiries: liam@redalertpr.com and alison@redalertpr.com (Red Alert PR, Comms & Events)

For more information: truepride2026@gmail.com

Ticket links: DICE or eventbrite

Alan Turing … Gallup Poll’s Recent Data … Section 28 Petition … Rainbow Lottery … Cats!

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Alan Turing

BornAlan Mathison Turing
23 June 1912 Maida Vale, London
Died7 June 1954 (aged 41) Wilmslow, Cheshire

Alan Turing 1930

Turing left an extensive legacy in mathematics and computing which has become widely recognised with statues and many things named after him, including an annual award for computing innovation.

His portrait appears on the Bank of England £50 note, first released on 23 June 2021 to coincide with his birthday.

The audience vote in a 2019 BBC series named Turing the greatest scientist of the 20th century.

Gallup Poll’s recent data

Gallup has been asking people around the world, “Is the city or area where you live a good place or not a good place to live for gay or lesbian people?” since 2006, meaning they now have 20 years of data to look at.

Currently, 40% of people say their area is a good place, while 44% say it’s not. This is a significant improvement over the 23% who said that their area was a good place in 2006 and the 53% who said it was not.

To be clear, this question isn’t an exact statistic measuring how many LGBT+ people are safe worldwide. First, mostly cishet people were surveyed because they’re just the vast majority of the population, and they are the people who are least likely to know what conditions LGBT+ people are living under. Second, the question focused just on “gay or lesbian people,” which excludes a large part of the community, although it’s unclear how aware straight people would be of that fact.

Last, it’s not clear what “a good place” even means in this context. Obviously, it doesn’t mean “gay and lesbian people are treated just as well or better than straight people” since that’s true nowhere in the world. So, at best, the question is asking if the discrimination and oppression gay people face in one’s locality is somewhat less than what gay people face elsewhere, based on the respondents’ imagination of what it’s like to be gay wherever they live.

More likely, though, respondents were just answering based on whether they personally are OK with having gay people in their area. So this poll can offer some insight into broad trends, but don’t take it too literally.

Gallup showed poll results separated by countries that have legalised marriage equality and those that haven’t. The countries that legalised it saw a significant increase in the percentage of people saying their locality is a “good place” from 2006 to 2015 (39% to 73%), while the remaining countries saw some growth in the period after that (16% to 26%).

It’s also notable that Gallup is not legally allowed to ask this question in some countries. Several countries banned either homosexuality or “LGBTQ+ propaganda” in the 2020s or increased the penalties for it, which means that the stagnation is likely worse than what is seen here. Also, the 2020 results are likely skewed because COVID prevented Gallup from conducting in-person interviews and from surveying certain countries altogether.

Section 28 Petition Passes 10,000 Signatures

The petition could see the Government acknowledge the harms of the Thatcher-era law.

A petition calling for a public inquiry into the devastating impacts of Section 28 on LGBT+ people has passed 10,000 signatures, meaning the Government must respond to it. 

Section 28 of the Local Government Act (1988) was a Thatcher-era law which banned the “promotion” of LGBT+ identities in schools and by local authorities for more than two decades. It was eventually repealed in 2000 in Scotland and 2003 in England and Wales. However, a hangover from this discriminatory legislation meant for many years after educators did not feel they could talk about LGBT+ identities in the classroom, denying countless young people vital information and continuing an environment of isolation.  

The petition was published on the UK Government’s official petition platform on 24 March and will run for six months until 24 September. It achieved 10,000 signatures on 12 June and currently has more than 17,750 signatures.

When a petition on the platform achieves more than 10,000 signatures the Government must issue a response; if a petition receives more than 100,000 signatures by its end date then it will also be debated in Parliament.

The campaign has been supported by big names like Boy George and Russell Tovey.

You can sign the Petition here.

It’s Pride Season: Play the Rainbow Lottery and support Out In The City

The Rainbow Lottery is the UK’s first and only lottery supporting LGBT+ good causes.

Welcome to the Rainbow Lottery, the exciting weekly lottery that raises money for over 200 LGBT+ good causes totally, openly and exclusively.

The hope is to make a difference to good causes so they can carry on their vital work – which helps us all. Play the lottery, support the community – it’s fun, it’s simple and everybody wins!

How the lottery works:

  • £1 per ticket – that’s right, unlike many other lotteries, the lottery tickets are only £1 per week.
  • For every ticket you play, 80% goes to good causes and prizes.

£25,000 jackpot prize

  • Match all 6 numbers and you win the JACKPOT! There are also prizes of £2000, £250, £25 and 3 free tickets for following week.

  • Every month there is a Super Draw. June’s Super Draw is a £1,000 Last-Minute Getaway (or £1,000 cash alternative or plant 1,000 trees).

Buy tickets here.

Cats

A person who doesn’t want to be around people is an Introvert.

A person who likes to be around people is an Extrovert.

But I like to be around cats.

Does that make me a Purrvert?

Blue John Mine and Eyam … Bridgewater Hall Concerts … Girlfriends … Out On The Radio … Loneliness Awareness Week

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Blue John Mine and Eyam

Thirty five of us travelled by coach from Manchester to the Blue John Mine in Derbyshire and then on to the village of Eyam.

Blue John (also known as Derbyshire Spar) is a semi-precious mineral, a rare form of fluorite with bands of a purple-blue or yellowish colour. The name may have come from the french “bleu-jaune” (blue-yellow).  

In the United Kingdom it is found only at Blue John Cavern and Treak Cliff Cavern at Castleton in Derbyshire and is rarer than diamonds.

During the 19th century, it was mined for its ornamental value, and mining continues on a small scale.

Twenty four of us ventured down the mine – altogether there are 245 steps and holding on to the handrail was essential as the floor could be slippery. There was only one way in and out! Our guide, Chris, was excellent and explained in detail everything there is to know about Blue John.

We then jumped back on the coach to visit the Eyam Tea Rooms for lunch. Eyam’s main claim to fame is the story of how the village chose to go into isolation so as to prevent infection spreading after bubonic plague was discovered there in 1665.

In the later 20th century, the village’s sources of livelihood largely disappeared. The local economy now relies on the tourist trade, with Eyam being promoted as “the plague village”.

There are lots of photos to see here.

Bridgewater Hall Concerts

We are extremely grateful to the Bridgewater Hall for the Community Members Scheme. During the last season from September 2025 to June 2026 the scheme has enabled 67 different people from Out In The City to attend 36 free concerts.

BBC Philharmonic Series 26/27

This year each of the following concerts are recorded and broadcast across the nation on BBC Sounds and BBC Radio 3. In a world that is increasingly divided, it’s quite something that 2,000 people can gather in a room – joined by millions more over the airwaves – and experience the power of live music together.

The season highlights include:

Saturday 19 September: Sibelius ‘Symphony No 5’
(Season opening concert) Chief Conductor John Storgårds and the epic sounds of the Bridgewater Hall organ – James McVinnie performs Gabriella Smith’s ‘Breathing Forests’, followed by Sibelius’s ‘Symphony No 5’.

Friday 25 September: Brahms Reqiuem
Principal Guest Conductor Anja Bihlmaier leads the Orchestra through Brahms’s enduringly cathartic ‘A German Requiem’. 

Saturday 10 October: Tchaikovsky’s ‘Pathétique’
Yoel Gamzou returns to the Philharmonic to conduct Tchaikovsky’s ultimate symphony.

Saturday 6 February: Storgårds conducts Shostakovich
Storgårds continues his critically-acclaimed journey through Shostakovich’s symphonies, this time with ‘Leningrad’ – the single most enduring musical monument to resistance to Nazi invasion.

Saturday 6 March: Walton ‘Symphony No 1’
A UK premiere from this season’s Composer in Residence, Cassandra Miller, alongside Walton’s towering First Symphony.

International Concert Series 26/27

The Bridgewater Hall’s much-loved International Concert Series also returns this season – bringing some of the world’s finest musicians and orchestras direct to Manchester.

Beethoven is a focus in 2027, exactly 200 years after the death of this towering figure. Benjamin Grosvenor joins Paavo Järvi and the London Philharmonic Orchestra for Beethoven’s ‘Emperor’ concerto (20 February, 3.00pm); the National Philharmonic Orchestra of Ukraine take on the thrilling Seventh Symphony (1 March); Angela Hewitt dedicates an evening to Beethoven’s piano sonatas (20 May); and Salford’s very own BBC Philharmonic are joined by the CBSO Chorus for the vast Symphony No 9 and its unforgettable ‘Ode to Joy’ (13 March).

That’s the second of two BBC Philharmonic concerts this season, and they’ll be performing another epic in the first – Strauss’s colossal ‘Alpine Symphony’ (4 December).

Conductor John Wilson brings his stellar Sinfonia of London to Manchester for Rachmaninoff, Walton and Dukas (28 February, 3.00pm), while the Osaka Philharmonic Orchestra will be joined by the brilliant violinist Viktoria Mullova (6 June, 3.00pm).

Two of Germany’s finest orchestras visit in 2026, each performing a Brahms masterpiece. The Stuttgart Philharmonic take on the Third Symphony (20 November), a concert that also features Jeneba Kanneh-Mason playing Mozart. The NDR Radiophilharmonie Hannover, meanwhile, perform the symphony that followed: Brahms’s magnificent Fourth (12 October).

The season opens just as The Bridgewater Hall celebrates its 30th birthday – when they are delighted to welcome back Harry Christophers and his world-class choir The Sixteen (29 September).

The season ends with a journey back to the salon concerts that were so popular in 18th-century Vienna and 19th-century Paris, brought to us by trumpeter Matilda Lloyd and the Goldmund Quartet (24 July).

The concerts – free of charge – will be advertised on a monthly basis from September 2026 under “Next Outings” on our website. So keep an eye out – https://outinthecity.org/next-outings/

Film: Girlfriends (Cantonese – Subtitled)

Girlfriends, a sapphic love story, arrives in UK cinemas from 19 June!

Through three love stories, we witness a woman’s growth. At 17, she’s naive and inexperienced. At 22, she’s hesitant and lacks courage. At 34, she has matured and grown through life’s challenges. Her journey shows that love can be painful, but it’s also worth fighting for.

Venue: Odeon Manchester Great Northern (release date 19 June)

Time: 5.45pm – 7.20pm

Price: £6.50 – £7.50.

Also at Vue Manchester Printworks (19 – 25 June), The Light, Stockport (21 June & 24 June) and The Light, Bolton (19 – 25 June) and other venues. Please check websites for details.

Out On The Radio

Norman and Tony present a radio show – “Out On The Radio” – aired on the first Tuesday of each month from 2.00pm to 3.00pm on ALL fm 96.9 aimed at older members of the LGBT+ communities. It is also uploaded to Mixcloud so you can “listen later”. 

The link to the latest show is: https://www.mixcloud.com/allfm969/out-on-the-radio-tuesday-02-june-2026/

To listen to previous shows, go to: https://www.mixcloud.com/home/for-you/ (search for – Out on the Radio).

ALL fm is based in Levenshulme Old Library in Manchester and is a community radio station featuring a wide variety of shows. Our show features an eclectic mix of music and the occasional guest. You will hear some familiar songs like Jim Reeves “I Love You Because” and Elkie Brooks “Pearl’s a Singer” alongside obscure tracks from Wrabel, Le Gateau Chocolat and Nazamba.

Listen in … give it a try. We are sure you will enjoy.

Loneliness Awareness Week

Loneliness Awareness Week 2026 takes place from 15 – 21 June.

Hosted by the Marmalade Trust, this year marks the 10th anniversary of the campaign, featuring the theme “Giving Loneliness a Voice”.

The goal is to reduce the stigma around loneliness by encouraging open conversations and sharing personal stories.

Age Without Limits Day … Walk a Day in our Shoes … Salford Pink Picnic … Bury LGBTQI+ History Walk … Straight Pride … David Hockney

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Ageing Without Limits Day

We organised a party for Ageing Without Limits Day with some great entertainment, a raffle and buffet to celebrate ageing and to challenge ageism.

Thanks to Wm Morrison Supermarkets Limited and all those who donated raffle prizes, Jim on reception, Andi, Ken, Norman and Peter for help in the kitchen, David for selling raffle tickets, and all the brilliant acts – Norman, Andi, Jennifer and Wolf.

Tony read out a poem by Alyson Malach:

Walk a Day in Our Shoes

Before you post those words tonight,

Before you press “share” and start a fight,

Before you mock, deny, dismiss,

Or question who we say we is.

Remember this before you write:

We wake each day and live this life.

We are not topics to debate,

Not headlines built on fear and hate.

We are your neighbours down the street,

The people that you daily meet.

The worker serving at the till,

The nurse, the teacher, showing skill.

We are the customers you greet,

The service users you may meet.

The people buying what you sell,

The people wishing simply well.

Yet still some choose to mock our name,

To misgender us and cause us pain.

To question who we know we are,

Whilst judging us from near and far.

Walk just one day within our shoes,

And feel the things we did not choose.

The stares, the whispers, constant fear,

The sense we’re never welcome here.

Feel what it means to be denied,

To have your truth pushed to one side.

To hear your identity debated,

Dismissed, diminished and invalidated.

The trauma builds, the burden grows,

In ways the outside seldom knows.

Discrimination leaves its mark,

Long after comments leave the dark.

It affects our health, our peace of mind,

The confidence we struggle to find.

It impacts work, our daily life,

And fills ordinary days with strife.

Some lose hope beneath the strain,

Of carrying exclusion’s pain.

Because words are never “just a joke”

When they leave another person broke.

And to those posting hate online,

Remember there is often a line.

Freedom of speech is not a shield

When discrimination is revealed.

The measure of a decent society

Is not agreement or conformity.

It is whether people can belong,

Even when others think they’re wrong.

So see our humanity first.

Not politics at its worst.

Not culture wars or online noise,

But human beings with human joys.

Accept us for who we are.

The truth need not be travelled far.

For dignity is not a special right

It belongs to everyone in sight.

And when history asks what side you chose,

When faced with people different from your own,

Let your answer be both kind and true:

“I chose respect.

I chose humanity.

I chose to walk in their shoes.”

Salford Pink Picnic

Thanks to AutoTrader for sponsoring a stand with Proud 2 B Parents at Salford Pride’s Pink Picnic. It was the 15th anniversary.

Bury LGBTQI+ History Walk

Saturday, 20 June – 2.00pm – 3.30pm

Meet at Victoria Wood Statue, Library Gardens, Manchester Road, Bury BL9 0DF

Discover Bury’s LGBTQI+ past and a great way to connect, share and celebrate together.

Tour is free – but donations welcome – no need to book.

Happy Straight Pride Month! Wait … let me double check my notes

It’s finally that time of year, when we celebrate “Straight Pride!” Frankly, it’s about time. For centuries, heterosexual people have been oppressed, marginalised, and forced to live in the shadows of a ruthlessly queer-dominated world. It’s time we address this glaring inequality and finally celebrate the joy, the triumph and the beautifully beige aesthetic of being straight.

First, let’s brush up on our straight history. Even before the 1960s, heterosexual people were routinely targeted, harassed and arrested just for holding hands in public.

Hold on, my editor is whispering in my ear. Correction: That was actually homosexual people. My mistake! But I’m sure if we dig deep enough into the archives, we’ll find a time when straight people were persecuted for their orientation. No? Nothing in the database?

Well, no matter! Straight people should still be able to celebrate the brave act of being exactly what society expects them to be. What’s not to celebrate? Imagine the sheer courage it takes to embrace an attraction to the opposite sex without a single fear of societal retaliation. It’s not like heterosexuality has been the default setting since, well, the dawn of human civilisation. They deserve a parade and a flag!

The big straight coming out

I’ll never forget the day my sister finally came out to our parents. Lord, what an emotional roller coaster. She had confided in me weeks prior, trembling as she asked if Mum and Dad would still love her. I kept reassuring her: “It’s going to be okay. They’re progressive. They’ll accept you.”

When the moment arrived, she sat on the couch, clutching a shredded tissue in her shaking hands, took a deep breath, and confessed that she was … straight. Mum immediately burst into tears. Dad gasped. But they both jumped up to embrace her, whispering, “No matter what the outside world thinks, you are our baby, and you are perfectly, statistically normal.” I was beaming with pride.

The fight for representation

It’s just exhausting seeing how lopsided our culture is in favour of the LGBT+ community. Those poor, sweet straights are practically invisible. You never see them in movies, and they are certainly never depicted as representing the “normal” way of living. When was the last time you saw a commercial featuring a man and a woman? Or a sitcom centred around a husband and wife? Almost never!

It’s completely unfair that straight people don’t have a designated month to look at a billboard and think, “Wow, it’s okay to be me.”

Consider the global crisis: Right now, there are nearly 70 countries where being heterosexual is literally illegal, and in several, it carries the death penalty!

Editor’s Note: Apologies again, I read the chart upside down. It is actually illegal to be homosexual in those countries. In fact, heterosexuality is legally protected and culturally enforced in 100% of the world.

But still! That doesn’t mean straight people feel like they have the entire weight of global law, religion, and history reinforcing their lifestyle. Right?

The legislative onslaught

Let’s talk about the political climate. As we speak, there are over 500 anti-heterosexual bills moving through the US legislature. Over 500! These hetero-haters are doing everything in their power to deny basic rights, ban straight couples from adopting, dictate which bathrooms they can use and ensure that bakers don’t have to bake them a wedding cake. They’ve even passed “Don’t Say Straight” bills in schools!

Oops! I’m looking at the script again. It turns out I got it backward one more time. It’s actually the LGBT+ community facing those bills.

Look, at the end of the day, I just don’t think it’s fair. Yes, my research has revealed that heterosexuals are the overwhelming majority. And yes, science confirms that society is already built entirely around the heterosexual lifestyle. But if they don’t get a parade for successfully doing the bare minimum required to propagate the species, then what was this all for?

David Hockney

RIP David Hockney: The world-renowned artist died peacefully at home on Friday, 12 June. The artist captured everyday moments of gay life in an era where being gay was criminalised, as well as being known for his dynamic, colourful scenes.

We recently visited Salts Mill in Saltaire which features several large rooms given over to the works of David Hockney, and last year we visited Aviva Studios to experience an immersive exhibition with a unique personal commentary by David himself.