Quaran … tired!? Then apply to Pride in Ageing First Birthday event

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How are you holding up? What are you doing to stay sane? Just asking for a friend 🙂 Seriously though, are you doing OK? We are doing the very best we can to get through these strange times.

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Launched by Sir Ian McKellen in June 2019, Pride in Ageing has already made huge strides in helping to ensure that Greater Manchester becomes one of the best places for LGBT people to grow older.

Pride in Ageing are holding their 1st Birthday Celebration Event: ‘Sensible Footwear’– a Q & A session with Kate Charlesworth

Friday 5 June 2020, 12.00 noon – 1.30pm

This is a public event to celebrate one year of Pride in Ageing. Lawrie Roberts, Programme Manager, will be joined on Zoom (an online platform that lets us all see and hear each other over the web) by Edinburgh-based cartoonist Kate Charlesworth, who will be answering questions about her landmark LGBTQ memoir ‘Sensible Footwear’.

Described by The Guardian as “joyous … leaves no stone unturned … an instant classic”. ‘Sensible Footwear’ is the first graphic history to document lesbian life in Britain from 1950 to the present and includes Kate’s recollections of visiting Canal Street whilst at art college in Manchester in the 1970s.

This event is being run in conjunction with LGBT Foundation’s Women’s Programme. Copies of ‘Suitable Footwear’ are available to order via the Myriad online store here with 25% off and free UK P&P using the code MYREADATHOME.

Free, limited spaces, please register for this event in advance here and you will receive a link or phone number to call to join the event on the day.

The Pride in Ageing programme was set up in response to concerns that too many lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans people over the age of 50 are living in isolation and facing discrimination as a direct result of their sexual orientation or gender identity. Laws change but attitudes can be harder to shift.

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Lowry play

One of the trips we had planned was to see the play “The Last of the Pelican Daughters” at the Lowry in Salford – a play about family, money, what we inherit from our past, and what we choose to bring into the future.

The Wardrobe Ensemble were running a series of intergenerational workshops that bring older and younger people together to talk about the themes of the show: Inheritance, Money, Grief, Love and Family.

There is now a virtual version of the workshop which can be done with someone that you know and also with someone you don’t know. If you are interested in doing the workshop with a stranger of a different generation, please contact me to arrange: openshawtony1@gmail.com?

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Tony’s Coffee Time Picks

“I’m missing you all, so here is a playlist which reflects my feelings” which can be found here:

https://www.mixcloud.com/manchestercares1/tonys-coffee-time-picks-2/

Birthday coincidence … and Granada Reports

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It’s “Happy Birthday” to Helen on 3 May.

Not a lot of people know this but we have two people who have attended Out In The City events with the same first name and same surname. So it’s “Happy Birthday” to David C (Peter’s husband) on 7 May and “Happy Birthday” to David C (David’s husband) on 8 May.

 

Concerns members of LGBT community may be suffering in silence during lockdown

Don (see below) from Out In The City was interviewed by Lise McNally at ITV television. The item was shown on Granada Reports on 1 May 2020 together with information about the LGBT Foundation’s telephone service “Brew Buddies”.

You can see it here

Members of the LGBT community are being urged not to suffer in silence if lack of access to safe spaces is putting their health at risk.

The LGBT Foundation in Greater Manchester says that demand on their crisis helpline has doubled since the coronavirus outbreak – with around one in ten reporting that they don’t feel safe where they’re currently staying.

If you need immediate help

  • Call 999 if it’s a genuine emergency
  • Call the Samaritans on 116 123

Links to help and support:

  • The LGBT Foundation is a national charity delivering advice, support and information services
  • akt supports lgbtq+ young people aged 16-25 in UK who are facing or experiencing homelessness or living in a hostile environment
  • The Proud Trust is a LGBT+ charity that supports young people and youth groups across the UK. They’ve moved support services online
  • Age UK offers support to older LGBT+ people
  • UK mental health charity Mind has a dedicated section for LGBT+ people, where you can access information about mental health support
  • You can find Stonewall’s information service here

LGBT+ people around the world say ‘Stay home!’

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LGBT+ people around the world say ‘Stay home!’

 

Brew Buddies on Granada TV

Rainbow Brew Buddies (the LGBT Foundation’s new telephone befriending programme) will be featured on Granada Reports on ITV on Friday, 1 May in the 6.00pm bulletin, so do tune in to see them on tv!

They are particularly inviting sign-ups to this service from the over 50s. Find out more here: https://lgbt.foundation/rainbowbrewbuddies or give them a call on 0345 3 30 30 30 for more information.

Latest news … podcasts, magazine and more

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Tony’s Coffee Time Picks

Manchester Cares is a community network of young professionals and older neighbours (over 65) hanging out and helping one another in our rapidly changing city.

I’ve contributed to their blog by sharing some picks from my music collection. So make yourself a tea or coffee and tune in. I managed to squeeze in a plug for Out In The City!

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Sonder podcasts

Would you like to make your own podcast? Sonder Radio have offered to help people from Out in The City record their own shows during lockdown. All people need is a landline or mobile phone so no great tech.

Can you imagine a world without music? Songs from the past can stir powerful emotions and transport us back in time. Pick your favourite pieces of music and make a rough note of the tunes and the memories. It’s best to pick 5 to 8 fairly short songs.

Sonder Radio will record you, over the telephone, talking about your choices, find the pieces of music and create the soundtrack of your life!

If enough people are interested we may be able to do an ‘Out In The City’ show – a group discussion on Skype on a particular theme or topic. Or it could be a really simple show where people just pick a song and tell a story about that song and Sonder stick together lots of mini stories with lots of different voices.

Please let me know if you are interested so we can take the idea forward. Send to openshawtony1@gmail.com

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Talking About My Generation Newsletter

Talking About My Generation was started as a campaign so people aged 50 and over from across Greater Manchester could change the record on what it means to grow older in the region. They were given the training to become community reporters so they could set the record straight on ageing by reporting on other people from their generation, charting their own stories of life over 50 and showing any challenges associated with ageing and how they are being overcome, to inspire people to live the life they choose, regardless of age.

I am delighted to now share with you the latest Talking About My Generation podcast and magazine – the “Life In Lockdown” edition.

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In a previous posting we reported that some of the biggest names in Manchester’s drag scene have collaborated with drag performers from around the world to raise money for Age UK.

The original target was £2,000, but the Quarantine Queens have exceeded that and raised £2,688 (so far). Thank you!!

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Miriam Tenquist, a student at Manchester University has contacted Out In The City to see if anyone over 60 years of age would like to be interviewed (over the telephone)? Eight of us have already agreed, but she is looking for a couple more interviewees.

It is for her masters dissertation, which is a Sociology MSc leading into a PhD, with a special focus on ageing populations. For her research project she is looking at the impact of groups for older LGBTQ+ individuals on social isolation.

The interviews will be about an hour long and will be done over the phone. Importantly the interview can be stopped or questions skipped if you don’t feel comfortable.

If interested please contact: miriam.tenquist@postgrad.manchester.ac.uk

Lesbian Visibility Day … and more news

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Lesbian Visibility Day – 26 April 2020

Lesbian Visibility Day, now embedded in the international LGBT+ calendar, is a celebration of the world’s diverse lesbian community.

Held on 26th April every year, Lesbian Visibility Day showcases women-loving-women, providing a platform for lesbian role models to speak out on the issues facing female sexual minorities.

The origins of the day remain mysterious, but it has been running since 2008. Having initially started in the US, Lesbian Visibility Day – thanks to the wonders of the worldwide web – is now celebrated internationally.

Last year to mark the occasion, Out In The City visited Shibden Hall (Anne Lister’s house) in Halifax. Lister is often called “the first modern lesbian” for her clear self-knowledge and openly lesbian lifestyle. Called “Fred” by her lover and “Gentleman Jack” by Halifax residents, she suffered harassment for her sexuality, but recognised her similarity to the Ladies of Llangollen, whom she visited.

This year, due to socially isolating, we recommend that you watch the “Invisible Women” documentary. On Facebook go to the Invisible Women page. Visit the Shop and you can buy the film for £4.99.

“Invisible Women” is a 25 minutes long documentary exploring the untold story of the North West’s LGBTQ past over the last 50 years through two women’s incredible journey, rebellion and activism.

Angela Cooper and Luchia Fitzgerald have spent the last half a century fighting for their rights as women and as lesbians.

Their work has revolutionised Manchester whilst transforming the lives of thousands of women and yet no record of them exists in the city’s archives; theirs is a story that risked disappearing from history. Until now.

Manchester, 1969: Luchia, a teenage Lesbian runaway from Ireland struggles to survive on the streets of Manchester. She’s arrested and sent for a lobotomy to cure her of her “deviant sexual tendencies”. Luchia escapes the lobotomy to seek solace in the New Union, a pub at the epicentre of Manchester’s underground gay community.

Luchia is at her lowest ebb when she hears a female student at the next table giving voice to every frustration she felt; Luchia pulls up a chair to listen. That student was Angela and this chance encounter sparked a relationship that has endured fifty years of euphoric highs and earth-shattering lows.

To reduce plastic and postage costs the film will be sent to you as a high res link ready to view as and when you please for the rest of time.

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In the last posting we reported that some of the biggest names in Manchester’s drag scene have collaborated with drag performers from around the world to raise money for Age UK.

Courtney Act and Cheddar Gorgeous in the video

The Quarantine Queens have raised £1,825 (so far). How good is that!!

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Alex from Manchester Pride sent the following message:

Just a quick one to let you know that the Online Consultation is live. I’d really appreciate it if you could share it within your networks.

Manchester Pride Online Consultation

The Online Consultation covers all things Manchester Pride and will be an invaluable tool in helping us develop all of our programmes to better represent, support and celebrate our wonderful LGBTQ+ communities.

The consultation is for all LGBTQ+ people living in Greater Manchester to better understand the community’s needs.

We’re also holding Listening Groups which will be an opportunity for individuals from further marginalised communities to interact with the Manchester Pride team and provide a safe space for them to share how they feel about the LGBTQ+ community in Manchester.

Manchester Pride Listening Groups 

These groups will be an opportunity for us to better understand how we can improve our support for the community throughout the year and improve visibility for marginalised groups and people.

Thanks in advance for your support with this! I hope you’re staying safe and staying proud!

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Brew buddies wanted as crisis calls double to LGBT Foundation in lockdown – Talking About My Generation

The LGBT Foundation is urging people to sign up as brew buddies for its new befriending service to support vulnerable people living alone across Greater Manchester during the Coronavirus lockdown.

The launch of the Rainbow Brew Buddies telephone befriending scheme comes after the charity experienced a doubling of calls to their crisis helpline. The service will help people get together for a chat and a brew over the phone at least once a week for around 30 minutes.

The charity is now urging people to sign up to volunteer with Rainbow Brew Buddies.

Pauline has already signed up to volunteer. She said: “I wanted to become a brew buddy as it offers something to any LGBT person of whatever age who feels lonely during the current Covid-19 crisis.

“As an older trans woman of 72, who lives alone, I am aware how this “lockdown” can make anyone feel totally alone and down, and I think that speaking to the same person over the phone for 30 minutes every week will help a great deal.

“Just being able to chat with someone who listens is a great boost. And I am so lucky to have family and friends that I can speak with every week on the phone; this is my way of giving back and reaching out to offer support to those who are less fortunate than me. Will it make a difference – yes.”

The service will be prioritising those from LGBT communities in Greater Manchester who are most socially isolated, and are most impacted by restrictions in place due to the Covid-19 outbreak, such as older people, those who are without close family and friends to reach out to, disabled people, those on low income or who have been made redundant and those on the UK Government Vulnerable People list.

Paul Martin OBE, Chief Executive of LGBT Foundation, said: “We can all agree that a chat over a brew is one of life’s greatest simple pleasures, but not everyone always has someone to do this with regularly.

“Connecting with others is a crucial part of your wellbeing, and we want to ensure that every LGBT person feels a connection to someone in their community.

“Our message with Rainbow Brew Buddies is simple – no LGBT person should feel that they are alone.

“Through Rainbow Brew Buddies, those who are feeling particularly isolated at this time can know that there is always someone that is just a phone call away for a cup of tea, a check-in and a chat. It is vital every single LGBT person knows that you are not alone, that LGBT Foundation loves you and that we are still here if you need us. I strongly encourage you to reach out and join our scheme, where you will find a listening ear and someone who will always be there for you.”

Mayor of Greater Manchester Andy Burnham, is supportive of the programme.

He added: “This is such a positive initiative. Rainbow Brew Buddies is about offering people a friendly ear and a chance to chat every week. This is important for all of us, but especially for those who, for whatever reason, might already be more isolated – our older residents, people without close family and friends, or those recognised as more vulnerable.”

To see if you are eligible for this service please read our detailed guidance here.

To sign up to volunteer for this service please contact befriending@lgbt.foundation or call 0345 3 30 30 30.